The Secret – no comment.
I will say only that we live in a world of ‘chances’.
Im remember a movie, God told some lady: “if someone prey for patience, do you thing God just gives patince? Or He gives that human the opportunity to be patient? If someone prays for courrage, do you think God will give courage, or the opportunity to be courageous?(..)”
Thus, I think if God loves us so much, He must certainly give us the chances we ask for. We just have to know what and how to ask.
I wonder what`s the mechanism that purifies the mind when one is practicing crestian abstinence…